One time patron (thus far 😉). New to Chicago, cum say hi, I’m shy. I’m not completely closed to monogamy, but I wouldn’t say looking for it. My goals are more survival and security right now, not so much regular fun.
I’ve only been to one event here, and am pretty timid. I loved going to the last event and hope to participate in many more local communities who are on the same theme. Like most people, I’m pretty unhappy with how I look ascetically. I’ve participated in other groups outside this state and was hoping to become more comfortable in these situations. I’m interested in the male burlesque (boylesque) scene in Chicago. I’d love to learn to pole dance. I’d also be very interested in becoming certified in the tantric techniques. I’m definitely a believer that everyone deserves a little lovin, if they want it, regardless of age or size.
That being said: I consider myself a side position. I just think it’s super underrated. I’ve done both other positions, and there’s just no pleasure in it for me. It doesn’t have to be all about me, but I don’t really see the point in tolerating pain, or being embarrassed for hours. Insulting sides is pretty unattractive to me.
Please message me if you have any interest in getting to know me more. I’m definitely open to plutonic experiences. Hopefully we can arrange to meet up at a future GEM event.